Follow

caps, bigotry Show more

@ben
Arent lesbians restricted to girls liking girls (whether that be trans or cis idc) and since its just girls liking girls a lesbians pronouns would have to be she/her lol

@sadcatstarry @ben girls are allowed to use any pronouns they like! she/her is the most common but by no means the only acceptable pronoun set for girl

also, nonbinary lesbians exist!! :blobhearttranscat:

@00dani
But nonbinary people arent girls??? if a nb person liked a girl thatd be straignt wouldnt it? Bc the nb person is attracted to a different gender
@ben

@sadcatstarry @00dani

straight means you're attracted to the opposite gender

there isn't an opposite gender because genders don't implement IComparable, so straight nonbinary people or straight people who know nonbinary people don't exist

@ben
so if a girl fucks a guy but the girl knows an nb person that makes them not straight/suddenly lgbt ???????

Do you realize how fucking dumb that is
@00dani

@ben @sadcatstarry also, some nonbinary people /are/ girls! you can be a demigirl for example, which is a nonbinary gender but still has girl swirled in

also your gender can literally be "lesbian", which isn't a binary gender and isn't girl but definitely means ur lesbian :blobcat:

@00dani
no

either youre a boy, a girl, or nonbinary (no gender/not boy or girl)

Ur gender cant be the concept of girls liking girls. Either youre a girl or youre not. this is absurd
@ben

@00dani @ben
Im not even gonna get into the whole demi thing bc thats just bullshit on every level

@00dani
a gender, while separate from your birth sex, is still rooted in the idea of your sex in general (which is why trans people exist, theyre people with gender dysphoria who transition into the opposite sex to help them treat it)
a lesbian is the concept of girls liking girls. which is a sexuality, not a gender, because a sexuality is based on who youre attracted to/what makes ur jimmies wet at 2 in the morning
@ben

@sadcatstarry @ben nah

sex is fake, and gender can be whatever we want it to be :blobcat:

@00dani
ah i guess we're all smooth like ken dolls down there and trans people suddenly dont exist wrow progressive
@ben

@00dani @sadcatstarry @ben just gonna poke in here and be a non-binary girl who exists and proves that we are real. ❤

Explaining my gender Show more

@sadcatstarry @00dani @ben
well that's a bit reductive
as a demigirl- not quite girl but that's close- i don't necessarily understand people whose gender is lesbian, but i don't have to for them to be telling the truth
the world of gender and sexuality is broader than i know, and i suspect that it's broader than any of us know

@sadcatstarry @00dani @ben
you're right, people are what they say they are, even if that doesn't make sense to you

@aradinfinity
if i said my parents loved me maybe youd believe it even if it wasnt true
@00dani @ben

caps, bigotry Show more

Sign in to participate in the conversation
Ben Lubar's Mastodon Instance

This server and all of its members live in the same basement.