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weird how specific the bigotry of people on here is sometimes
like, a lesbian can have any pronouns EXCEPT THIS ONE SET THAT I ARBITRARILY CHOSE TO BE MAD AT
or understanding that people can have any number of people they're sexually attracted to from 1 person to 8 billion people BUT NOT ZERO THAT'D BE WEIRD
Arent lesbians restricted to girls liking girls (whether that be trans or cis idc) and since its just girls liking girls a lesbians pronouns would have to be she/her lol
a gender, while separate from your birth sex, is still rooted in the idea of your sex in general (which is why trans people exist, theyre people with gender dysphoria who transition into the opposite sex to help them treat it)
a lesbian is the concept of girls liking girls. which is a sexuality, not a gender, because a sexuality is based on who youre attracted to/what makes ur jimmies wet at 2 in the morning
Explaining my gender Show more
@00dani @sadcatstarry @ben just for clarity, I'm polygender and my gender is fluid. I'm a girl most of the time and a demiboi all of the time, but I'm sometimes less of a girl or my girl side goes away.
I don't usually explain that unless it's relevant because most people just need to know that "she" is a good pronoun for me and maybe that "they" is fine too if that works better for some reason.
@sadcatstarry @00dani @ben
well that's a bit reductive
as a demigirl- not quite girl but that's close- i don't necessarily understand people whose gender is lesbian, but i don't have to for them to be telling the truth
the world of gender and sexuality is broader than i know, and i suspect that it's broader than any of us know
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